“MEN NEED HELP TOO!” Deyemi Okanlawon Opens Up on Strength, Therapy and Leaning on His Wife

(Deyemi Okanlawon. Photo by TMDB)

Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has sparked widespread conversation after speaking candidly about the pressures men face, urging them to embrace vulnerability and seek help instead of suffering in silence.

The actor challenged the common belief that strength means carrying every burden alone, insisting that real courage also involves admitting when support is needed.

While emphasizing that men naturally feel responsible for protecting their families and loved ones, Deyemi said emotional resilience should never come at the cost of mental well-being.

His honest reflections have resonated with many, as he revealed how therapy, trusted mentors, and the support of his wife have helped him navigate life’s most difficult moments.

Speaking during a recent interview, Deyemi said he sees protecting the people around him as a fundamental responsibility, adding that he would instinctively put himself in harm’s way if necessary.

However, he stressed that being physically and emotionally strong does not mean ignoring personal struggles. Instead, he encouraged men to seek help whenever they feel overwhelmed.

The actor disclosed that he maintains a strong support network, including a therapist and trusted mentors whom he can call during challenging times. He also revealed that when emotional pressures become overwhelming, he turns to his wife for comfort and encouragement.

Deyemi explained that although his wife has her own responsibilities, he is never afraid to wake her in the middle of the night when he needs support. His remarks have been widely praised online, with many commending him for encouraging open conversations about men’s mental health, emotional healing, and the importance of asking for help.